Are you considering an au pair? Wondering how you are going to get the inside scoop on them? Wondering what they are like socially? If you do a little digging, and spend the time, you are sure to get your answers!

First, start with the au pairs references. Read thoroughly through their references and consider contacting each reference via email with your questions. I have found that most former employers- assuming they aren't family members or family friends- tend to be VERY HONEST in their assessment. 

Second, google the au pair. Does the au pairs name show up in the listings?  Is there anything relevant to you?

Third, browse the social networks. Visit:

• Facebook
• Twitter
• MySpace
• YouTube

You will typically find photos, "friends", videos they made, music preferences, personal interests, etc. You will also get a sense of how Westernized they are and how connected they may be. If nothing else, it will serve as another data point in assessing an au pair candidate that is thousands of miles away!

The reality is- employers do it, colleges do it and people google each other all the time. Why not use it to help fill in some of the blanks?

If you were hiring an American 20-something, wouldn't you do a little digging on the social networks?! Au pairs are no different!